I hate to break the news to you, but this situation is not mutually exclusive to JW's.
Everyone on this planet has been raised by parents who were victims of their parents, who were victims of their parents, and so on.
I suffered alot of emotional trauma when I was a child, and tried to bring my child up in a better way, which I did.
My child does not see it that way, because she has no reference point.
In other words, she did not experience MY childhood, so she has nothing to compare her 'better life' to.
Night Owl